5 Simple Tips for Reducing Stress During Back-to-School Season
- Posted by Katya Pizarro
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5 Simple Tips for Reducing Stress During Back-to-School Season
Back-to-school season brings excitement for kids, but for parents, it often comes with stress. You’re not just a parent—you’re a mentor, schedule manager, homework helper, and the family chauffeur, juggling all that while managing your own work, household tasks, and personal responsibilities. It’s no wonder stress levels can skyrocket during this time of year!
While there’s a lot of content about helping students cope with school stress, let’s not forget that parents also need to manage their own stress. And here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself is essential for being the best parent you can be.
1. Be Present, Not Perfect
Let go of the pressure to be perfect! Nobody has it all together, and that’s okay. Instead, focus on the present and accept that improvement is a continuous process. For example, if your child is falling behind on reading goals or college applications, it’s not the end of the world. There’s always time to catch up. Being present means valuing each moment and recognizing that every day offers new opportunities for growth, for both you and your child.
2. Connect with Yourself First
Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. Find personal and meaningful ways to reconnect with yourself. Whether it’s through prayer, meditation, yoga, or simply taking a moment of silence, do what brings you peace. Get moving—stretch, exercise, go for a walk, or visit the beach. Eat healthily and make sure you’re getting enough sleep. When you prioritize your well-being, you’re in a better place to help your children succeed.
3. Share the Journey with Other Parents
Parenting can feel isolating, but you’re not alone. It helps to talk to other parents who are going through the same struggles. Don’t be afraid to open up—sharing your experiences and listening to theirs can bring a sense of relief and reciprocity. We’re all in this together, and that support system can make a world of difference.
4. Be Mindful of Control
One major source of stress is the need to control everything, but the reality is you can’t. You can’t control how others react, but you can control how you respond. Focus on the things you can manage, like how you spend your free time or enjoying a quiet coffee break. Letting go of the need to control every detail will reduce anxiety and give you a sense of peace.
5. Practice Flexibility and Kindness
Parenting isn’t easy, and life throws curveballs. Be kind to yourself. It’s okay if you don’t have all the answers. If you feel overwhelmed, talking to a life coach or therapist can provide much-needed guidance. The key is to embrace flexibility in your parenting, work, and relationships. Remember, your reactions shape your children’s behavior, so taking care of your mental health ensures you can be the confident, empowering parent they need.
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Dr. Pizarro is the Founder and President of Elite Language Academy, a language center in the USA. As an innate educator, she lectures as a Professor at Broward College in Florida. Her research interests and publications relate to TESOL education, multiculturalism, schooling settings with ESL students, and professional development. Her dissertation Exploring Private School Teachers’ Perceptions and Pedagogical Efficacy with English language Learners has effectively contributed to ESL teaching in the U.S. She has frequently delivered presentations at Annual TASS, Teaching Academic Survival, and Success Conferences.